anything that’s stressing you out is small enough to think about
"it's too big to think about" is a thought you can fit in the hand
at every scale, there are useful handles
think of them as rungs on a transdimensional ladder
from a three-body perspective, every rung-handle is perfectly balanced
this is a thing you can learn to recognize!
it’s much more about moving your viewfinder than about *changing* anything external
"man's reach exceeds his grasp" - bullshit. man has been grasping blindly. *look* before grasping.